FYI

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and I have a link to where you can receive
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thanks, bj

Saturday, January 31, 2009

PINK..... TO REMEMBER....

SUPER BOWL SUNDAY...
GO CARDINALS...
WHY? CAUSE I LIKE THEIR QUARTERBACK !!
WOO HOO !!!
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Our FATHER IN HEAVEN sees every sparrow that falls and hears every prayer uttered to HIM....
BLESSED WE ARE !


THIS POST IS DEDICATED TO ALL WOMEN WHO HAVE BREAST CANCER OR HAVE HAD IT IN THE PAST ..
We all love you so much and think that you are some of the BRAVEST women that have ever walked the face of this planet !
Our hats off and our hearts out to ALL OF YOU PINK WARRIORS !!

PINK SATURDAY is hosted by BEVERLY each week..
stop by to see other PINKS bloggers have listed...
Many thanks to BEVERLY and to ALL bloggers playing this wonderful game of
PINK SATURDAY..
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We can post all kinds of PINK.
FUNNY, SILLY, SAD, PRETTY, UGLY.......SHE doesn't care as long as it is PINK...after all...

PINK IS AN ATTITUDE !!

so Beverly says !! and, I, for one BELIEVE her !!


LADIES, we must continue our fight against BREAST CANCER !
PLEASE continue to have mammograms, self exams and support the fight in every way that you can !
We MUST keep the fight against breast cancer alive ALL YEAR LONG...not just during the month of OCTOBER....
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Breast cancer is the second leading cause of cancer deaths in women today (after lung cancer) and is the most common cancer among women, excluding non-melanoma skin cancers. According to the American Cancer Society, about 1.3 million women will be diagnosed with breast cancer annually worldwide about 465,000 will die from the disease. Breast cancer death rates have been dropping steadily since 1990, according to the Society, because of earlier detection and better treatments.
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THE FOLLOWING are some PINKS that join in the

FIGHT FOR THE CURE....

I don't have breast cancer nor anyone in our family has it. I do have two very good friends that have fought it ......and both have won their fight. Praise be to our Heavenly Father and for all the awareness that is going on now. EARLY DETECTION is crucial ..

It is a cause that I have always felt very strongly about and is always on my mind. I don't have much money to donate......but, I CAN help to make awareness of this disease more available and....SO CAN YOU !

AND......so can fellas like this one ....

don't we love it and don't we appreciate it...
ooo, we sure do !!
DELTA AIR LINES....

the more PINK that's out there, the more we are all reminded...
Google this and read all about what a great thing they are doing.....



My grocery store, like yours, was full of PINK during
OCTOBER, BREAST CANCER AWARENESS MONTH..
but WE CAN'T STOP THERE...we have to be reminded ALL YEAR LONG.....


I absolutely LOVE this.....
every time we see a touch of PINK, we remember our loved ones and friends
that have or have had this deadly disease and we
PRAY A LITTLE HARDER !



I know we ALL appreciate the companies that support the FIGHT FOR THE CURE....
I sure do and I try my very best to purchase PINK over anything else.
I just bought a beautiful PINK candle with 95% of the sales going to help
FIGHT THE FIGHT...there's so many other items out there to help the cause...
Just watch for them.....SOMEONE WILL THANK YOU !
Did you know you could buy PINK grocery bags with proceeds going to the
CURE ?
I didn't but.....I sure do now and I am getting some!
Imagine taking them in a grocery store, reminding someone of this dreaded illness and them going home, calling for their long over-due MAMMOGRAM ...all because they saw YOU with your PINK GROCERY BAGS....

WAY TO GO, GIRLS....JOIN THE FIGHT IN ANY WAY THAT YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH.....

Wearing PINK, giving PINK, just TALKING PINK
IS GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE !!


.......IT SAVES LIVES.....
These SURVIVOR ladies are holding a
PINK DAY EVENT ...
ooo, don't they all look PRETTY in PINK....

i've used this fabulous photo before but.....
i love it !
IF we all had a nice, large copy of this beauty hanging in our office or our computer room...living room, kitchen, even bath...wouldn't we be reminded of PINK SAVES LIVES in such a gentle way !

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This is an illness that CAN be beaten. We just have to keep it foremost in our minds so we are reminded to FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT....
The money earned thru all the wonderful ways our country has pitched in to help
FIGHT, has been put to good use in early detection, helping more women to have mammograms, the new, powerful drugs and new technology.

PINK IS TO REMEMBER.... !!!!!!

REMEMBER TO PRAY........

REMEMBER TO GIVE .............

REMEMBER TO FIGHT !!!!!!!!!!

FIGHT FOR THE CURE...
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love, bj

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don't forget to click, EVERY DAY, on the pink ribbons for free mammograms for the women that can't afford to pay for one. The clickable ribbons are on a lot of blogger sidebars.... mine included...
Would YOU think about adding a clickable button to YOUR sidebar ?

just OUR click EVERY day....MAKES A DIFFERENCE !


OLIVIA NEWTON JOHN , singer and ROBIN ROBERTS, of Good Morning America, are but two of the many celebrities that have fought and won the battle of BREAST CANCER....Just think of all the others, our own family members, our friends, other famous people, other people just like you and me......so many lives have been saved because WE CARE....

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU that continue to support THE FIGHT....!!

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MY PINK SATURDAY HUNK.....




ANY MAN THAT WILL WEAR PINK HAS GOTTA BE

A HUNK !!

don't ya love it !!!

go out today and buy your HONEY a pink shirt...he'll be glad you did...and so will you!

i did it !....love, bj

Friday, January 30, 2009

ANOTHER REASON I LOVE WINTERTIME...

AHHHHH...ONE thing I love about Winter is having my wood rack just FULL of cut wood and sitting right beside my back door ... LOVE IT !
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now, to ME, that is a pretty sight !!
Our sweet son*in*law, Jent, brought this magnificent stack of wood to us from NEW MEXICO...
thanks so much, Jent..

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I am pretty sure I enjoy MY fireplace more than anyone else in the whole wide world...
All kidding aside...it is such a luxury to me.
There's not much that soothes my soul like a big, roaring fire on a cold day ....



and, I DO like a BIG fire....
the bigger...the better !!

When I can tear myself away from blogging (*grin) , I love to sit in front of my fireplace
with a good book !
I love fiction love stories BESTEST of all... oh, and the Christian love stories....
Nearly ALL books are good when read in front of a nice warm fire !!

See my laptop there on the stool...
Yep, I do love blogging while gazing into the fire..
I think I told you once, that my mom used to say if you stared at a fire, it would make you wet the bed!!
Hahahaha...I just love that !!
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OOOOO, and I can't say it loud enuf or long enuf that '
having a meal by the fireplace is just out of this world...
It can be a 4 course meal....or an afternoon snack of cookies and tea....
but, best of all to MOI, is
BREAKFAST IN FRONT OF THE FIRE....I luv it !
This morning I had a big bowl of white rice, sprinkled lightly with brown sugar,
a dusting of Cinnamon, of course, BUTTAH....
(my cousins call me GRITS..Girl Raised In The South)
toast and coffee....
all in front of my big, ole FIRE !
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YEP, I do love me some good fire...
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I told the story of my treasured and loved FRANKLIN FIREPLACE a long time ago but for those that missed it.
here 'tis again.......
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This handsome young man, our son, DAVID KEITH......

is responsible for the fireplace being in my living room.
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My mother bought this Franklin many, MANY years ago and Mr. Sweet Nothings installed it in HER living room. Mom's house (a very, very old one) was right next to a church and when she decided to sell, the church bought it. They intended making a parking lot on the property. THAT meant tearing down the house or moving it.
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Mr. Sweet Nothings asked if we might remove the wood burner stove, repair the ceiling where the pipe went thru and he was given permission...so the work began before the moving or tearing down of the old house.
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Long story short...that fireplace sat in my garage for several years..just waiting for a good time to install it.
(Mr. Sweet Nothings worked away from home and only home on weekends for years)
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One Christmas when David was in collage, married and pretty much BROKE all the time...called and said, "Mom, for your Christmas gift, how 'bout I install that Franklin ?" (shoot...I'm squalling, just writing about it).
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He got it installed, did all the brick work, which he had never done before, and it has worked like a charm ever since. It is, by far, the most beautiful thing in my living room....
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See why I love my Franklin Fireplace so much ?

it's a LOVE thing !
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Make your day warm.... and ... there's nothing warmer than love !
xo bj

Thursday, January 29, 2009

BLOGGING TOO MUCH ?

ANYONE out there that thinks they may be spending way too much time.....BLOGGING ?
I mean...besides ME ?
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I'VE noticed that I don't seem to have nearly as much time, getting together with my friends for a day of card playing and just having fun....

I'VE noticed that my bills are piling up 'cause I don't wanna leave my blog world and get them all paid...
oh, gosh....what if they turn off my ELECTRICITY....
no lights, no computer...BWAAAAAAA...NO COMPUTER !!!



I'VE noticed that I need to spend a whole lot more time in the KITCHEN....
cooking things for the freezer, making my own pie crusts, my own biscuits, my own dumplings instead of canned biscuits, my own roasted chicken instead of the one from the deli....
(not that I ever did all this BEFORE blogging...WHY NOW??...
feeling guilty 'cause.....


I COULD be saving a lot more money by PLANNING meals better.......
I'VE noticed that I have stacks of GREAT BOOKS to read but never seem to get around to reading them anymore....and I LOVE READING !!



I'VE noticed that I have THREE (3) bedrooms to paint...
WHEN ??

I can't even find time to CHOOSE THE COLORS I want...
I started thinking about it the other day but, then, I thought of a GREAT subject for a posting on...
MY BLOG....
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I'VE noticed I don't have nearly as much time for just relaxing with friends for an afternoon of tea and talking and enjoying each other....
The other day, one of these friends said something like "I don't hear from you as much as I used to and we never seem to get together enuf anymore." and here I was thinking she said, "Have you come up with some great things to post on your BLOG, that is now known as your LIFE SUPPORT ?"



I'VE noticed that my washing clothes has suffered....
when I find I have no more clean panties to wear today or
Mr. Sweet Nothings has one white sox and one black sox on this morning...
I am knowing I need to GET AWAY FROM THIS COMPUTER
so I can........
have nice, clean piles of LAUNDRY...
all I ask is for PILES OF CLEAN LAUNDRY...not even that they have to be put away...just CLEAN !
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AND.....the hardest, most heart hurting of ALL....
I'VE noticed I don't find myself in my beloved THRIFT STORES as often as I used to...

OH.....THE SHAME OF IT ALL !

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YES, LADIES.....I seem to be spending waaaaay too much time, holed up in my little computer room, bringing all my posting dreams to reality....there they are....all those post, pre-scheduled....sometimes
A WHOLE WEEKS WORTH...
now, as you know, THAT TAKES A LOT OF TIME..
and then, THE VISITING...
MY blog roll has grown to an astronomical amount and there's just NO WAY I can get around to everyone I would like to visit each and every day.
OOO, I know...I may LOOK like SUPERWOMAN...you've seen me in my costume....
but I said it once and I'll say it again...
"THIS OLD GRAY MARE AIN'T WHAT SHE USED TO BE"
and I am SLOW.....SO, if I don't visit as much as I should...please know I love ya and am thinking of ya...
I'm just trying to get caught back up on

LIFE.... !!
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OOO, I DID have time to make this big crock pot of BEEF STEW last night...
and a hugh plate of HOT WATER CORNBREAD, dripping with butter !
Ever had HOT WATER CORNBREAD before ?
O ! HONEY !
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if i've given you this recipe before...sorry....maybe you lost it and you need it again...
no one should have to go thru life without
HOT WATER CORNBREAD

2 CUPS CORNMEAL
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 Tablespoon + 1 teaspoon bacon drippings (i use shortening but I LIKE bacon drippings better !)
boiling water
shortening
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Mix cornmeal, salt and drippings with enuf boiling water to make batter thick enuf to shape.
Pat into thin cakes and fry in shortening...
Serve hot with butter...
WHEW....so down-home good it will make ya wanna slap your pappy !
xo bj

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

NO MATTER WHICH WAY YOU LOOK AT IT....
ABORTION IS WRONG !
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Abortion is wrong because it is a failure to love, appreciate, and care for a human baby. It is also wrong because it constitutes the deliberate killing of an innocent human being. When people defend abortion, their arguments should always be evaluated in light of the fact that the unborn baby is a human being, a separate individual from its mother. Therefore, deliberately killing it would be just as wrong as killing any other innocent human being.
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*NOTE: the above photo is of a 21 week baby, being operated on before being born....
note the little hand...

There are two ways to live your life.
One is as though nothing is a miracle.
The other is as though everything is a miracle.
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my thoughts, too, Mr. Einstein..
bj

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

A TEENY, TINY MAKEOVER....





REMEMBER how sad this table top setting looked...?

ONE reason being that things were not IN SCALE...
I didn't know what to do to FIX it...SCALE is something I know nothing about...
BUT, then, I asked YOU what to do and, being the FABULOUS blogging buddies that you are....
YA'LL PUT ME
ON THE RIGHT PATH....
Gimme an AMEN !
OK, I put books beneath the lamp and removed the little plate, thus abiding by the THREE ITEM rule .....
WHAT'S WRONG.....??
It is still not looking RIGHT...

OK, I moved out FATHER CHRISTMAS...BWAAAAAA....
maybe needing a little color ??
NOOOOO, something still IS NOT RIGHT....
WHAT IS IT ?



Maybe a different vase of flowers ?
It is still too....
BLAH !!
I brought back FATHER...
but my things just don't RELATE...
It all still looks so....I don't know.....RANDOM !


i AM NOT moving my crystal decanter and glasses on their very own brass tray....
they are staying RIGHT HERE !!


Maybe I need a little somthing BEHIND my bar set ???
EKKK.....NOT GOOD...!
RUN FOR YOUR LIFE !!!!



OK, bye-bye, FATHER CHRISTMAS....
different vase does NOTHING....
EVERY thing still looks too unrelated...or SOMETHING !!


HMMM...then I looked across the room and saw THIS...
OK, so maybe I WILL move the glass bar set..at least for a few minutes to see how THIS might look..
but I've got my doubts...

AND .....these.....
now these little bookends look positively GREAT wherever they are given a home...
couldn't hurt to TRY these....

what do you think? is it ANY better?
I went shopping in THE CLOSET and there is not a single, tall, to*die*for, perfect lamp to replace the big, fat one with.....and Social Security says they are NOT paying for new lamps right now....
maybe later...

maybe the glass BAR SET was just too 'light" looking for this spot ?

seems to me that just a touch of color and the weightyness of the candles anchored the spot...
but...REMEMBER...
I don't know one thing about SCALE..or balance... so this all may be off, too.
For right now, tho, until I can find something I like better or that LOOKS better,
I am pretty sure I can live with THIS LOOK..... looks to me like things 'relate' more with each other...and I don't get the "head cocked to one side 'cause one end of the buffet looks heavier than the other" so doesn't that mean the 'weight' is better distributed??
AFTER ALL...this is just one little tiny spot in my living room...not a big deal...
It's just that each little spot makes up the BIG PICTURE and just like you,
I want my BIG PICTURE to be pretty !! :O)

I AM generally not one to "decorate" so much as just love having things around me that mean something...
meaning I don't go out and just buy something...ANYTHING...to fill a space. It HAS to be something I really love or else it doesn't come home with me....
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THANKS AGAIN for all your help!!
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DOES it look a whole lot better to you or was I just needing a nice CHANGE ?? ;O)

P.S. If you will remember, I showed the PEANUT BRITTLE on the post with my SAD TABLE TOP....and here's what SANTAMAKER SAID:

santamaker said...
"Hi B.J.Okay, here's what you do....put a large piece of peanut brittle by the Father Christmas and that will make him "weigh" more, so now your scale will be balanced..."

hahahaha...you gotta love that !!

OOO, AIN'T LIFE GRAND !